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Some things only come out right in Urdu, Hindi or Punjabi. This page covers where to find a listener who speaks your language online, what Hearth offers, and the other options, including therapy and helplines.
If you are in crisis, start here. In the US and Canada call or text 988. In the UK and Ireland, call Samaritans on 116 123. In India, call Tele-MANAS on 14416, free and open 24 hours in many Indian languages. In Pakistan or anywhere else, call your local emergency number. More on our crisis page.
Yes. Hearth offers one-to-one online peer support with Keepers who speak Urdu, Hindi and Punjabi as well as English. You are matched by hand within 72 hours with one trained listener and keep the same person for years: a call every two weeks for $39 a month, or weekly for $99. It is peer support, not therapy.
Plenty of people who live their working lives in English still feel things in another language. The word your mother used, the phrase your grandfather said at the door, the particular weight of a family obligation: they arrive in Urdu or Hindi or Punjabi, and something gets lost when you translate them for a listener who does not know them.
Translation also costs effort. When you have to stop and explain what izzatmeans in your family, or why the eldest son cannot simply say no, or why an aunt’s comment at a wedding is still with you a year later, you spend the hour on context instead of on what you came to say. Talking to someone who already knows the shape of it means you can start in the middle.
Many people also switch between languages in a single sentence. That is normal, and a listener who can follow you between English and your first language lets you speak the way you actually think.
None of this is a diagnosis. It is the ordinary, recurring weight that many South Asian families carry, and the things people most often bring to a Keeper.
We have written more about family pressure, grief and identity.
Hearth is one-to-one online peer support. You are matched with one Keeper, a trained peer listener, and you keep the same person for years. You talk in a Sit, a 35 to 60 minute video or audio call, and in between there is the Long Talk, a written message thread with your Keeper.
Hearth is for anyone, not only South Asians. Language is simply one of the things we match on. How Hearth works · Pricing
Each service below was checked on its own website on 25 October 2026. Some are therapy with psychologists, some are helplines, and one is peer support. They do different jobs.
| Service | Same person every time? | What it is | Languages | Cost and where |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| HearthOur service | Yes. One Keeper, matched by hand, kept for years | One-to-one peer support: video or audio calls plus messages in between | Urdu, Hindi, Punjabi, English | $39 a month (a call every two weeks) or $99 (weekly). Online, wherever you live |
| The Meeting Matters | Usually, as with most therapy | A clinic of clinical psychologists offering therapy and counselling, in person and online | English, Urdu, Hindi, Punjabi | Paid sessions; the fee is the same online or in person. Islamabad clinic, and online for clients in Pakistan and abroad |
| AAHNA South Asian Therapy | Usually, as with most therapy | A South Asian-led team of therapists offering online therapy | Several South Asian languages (not listed on their homepage) | Free 15-minute consultation; fees not published. London-based, online worldwide |
| South Asian Network (SAN) | Depends on the service | A community nonprofit whose services include therapy and workshops | Describes its services as culturally and linguistically competent | Free. Southern California, virtual and in person |
| SAMHIN helpline | No, it is a helpline | A non-emergency helpline, a provider directory and support groups | Not stated | Free. US, 888-581-3230, 10am to 7pm Eastern, daily |
| Tele-MANAS | No, it is a helpline | India's government mental health helpline: counselling and referral by phone | About 20 Indian languages | Free, 24 hours. India, 14416 or 1-800-891-4416 |
Links: The Meeting Matters, AAHNA South Asian Therapy, South Asian Network, SAMHIN, Tele-MANAS.
Hearth is the only option above built around one person who stays and who speaks your language. If you want more on how one-to-one support works, read one-to-one peer support, explained or our guide to what peer support is.
Peer support is for the weight of ordinary life. Some things need a licensed clinician, in any language:
If any of these come up, your Keeper will say so plainly and help you find a therapist, including one who speaks your language, and will stay with you while you do. The services in the table above that offer therapy are a good place to start.
Yes. Hearth matches you with one trained Keeper (a peer listener) who speaks Urdu, for video or audio calls and messages in between, and you keep the same person for years. It costs $39 a month for a call every two weeks, or $99 for weekly. The Meeting Matters, a clinic of clinical psychologists in Islamabad, also offers online therapy in Urdu.
Yes. Family pressure is one of the most common things people bring to Hearth. List Hindi as your preferred language in the 12-minute intake and we match you with a Keeper who speaks it, so you can talk about duty, parents, in-laws and marriage without translating any of it.
Hearth has Keepers who speak Punjabi. A Keeper is a trained peer listener, not a counsellor or therapist. If you need counselling or therapy in Punjabi, The Meeting Matters offers sessions in English, Urdu, Hindi and Punjabi, online and in Islamabad.
No. Hearth is for anyone. Language is one of the things we match on, along with time zone and what you are carrying, so if you would rather talk in Urdu, Hindi or Punjabi, you can.
No. Hearth is peer support. Keepers do not diagnose, treat or prescribe, and none act as clinicians at Hearth. If what you are carrying needs a therapist, your Keeper says so and helps you find one, including therapists who speak your language.